LIFE AS A YOUNG MOM

HELLO
LOVIES

Nobody really prepares you on how to be a parent especially when you're still young, having a child really throws you off course.

Remember that trip you planned to Amsterdam? guess what it's cancelled! not necessary for ever just until you have more time on hand because a baby is on a whole new level.

Owh you miss those late nights ?don't worry you most definitely going to be having them though instead of drinks and late night movies,you get diaper changes and  midnight screams.
Its not as bad as it sounds.

You get to see so many magical moments that so many wish they hadn't missed,like your babies first smile,their first giggle,first step and first word ,sure having a baby is stressful but when you look at that small human who sees their whole world when looking at you,you know you've done something right.

Sure society will judge you and always try to knock you down.You will hear all the criticism you can imagine like ''omg she had a baby at such a young age'' to ''she ruined her future by having a child so young '' some of the comments you hear will not be pleasing  but you will have learn to bear with them ,look on the bright side take all the criticism as the motivational factor to prove them all wrong.

So what that you had your baby at such a young age, does that mean your life is over ? no it does not !it could even be the beginning of something greater than imagined

See me! I'm a single mom of a beautiful baby girl, since the day she was born I've raised her on my own with some help from my family members ,my baby daddy doesn't even care  but that's okay I've never really been good at sharing.
so i spend most of my day working and bonding with my daughter ,i'm not going to lie they're days where i wish i had some help but mostly i'm content with the bond we are developing .

they are really no rules or a manual on how to raise a child everybody has to find their own way, Its going to be a bumpy road sometimes you'd wish to jump off a bridge but then you look at your kids innocent eyes and smile cause they are worth the stress .

Life as a young parent in general is crazy but fun ,its a learning curve and its amazing ...

LOVE YOUR KID
BE HAPPY BECAUSE YOU DESERVE SO MUCH .

LOVE
SAMKE.